Connecting with Celebrities

This post seems fitting to write tonight, as I just got back from seeing He's Just Not That Into You, and I am now watching one of my top favorite movies, The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring.  First off, don't judge me!

What is interesting is that after being at the theaters, those of us that went were talking equally about the celebrities in it than the actual plot of the film.  Whether we were talking about how much we love Jennifer Aniston, or dislike Ben Affleck (he looks like Scott Peterson to me, you know, the guy who killed his wife and unborn kid and then put on the whole "I miss her" front), or how we are intrigued by Justin Long.  These "judgments" are not even based off of anything substantial- we are judging them by how the media portrays them, or the roles they play, or even just by how the look!  The point is, we connect with the celebrities based off of no personal encounters- just by what they say, what they are assumed to be doing, or how well they do their job that we believe they are or are not like their characters.  

When it comes to the celebrities I follow, I can not think of just one.  However, beginning in 8th grade, I followed Orlando Bloom religiously (yes, I was one of those girls, just slightly less crazy I promise.  and again, don't judge), but I have many celebrities I follow, especially now that Mr. Bloom isn't doing much of anything...at all.  (I'm not bitter.)

Although I am slightly embarrassed about writing a blog about Orlando Bloom, there is a reason behind it.  I followed his films just as much as other obsessed fan girls, but I always felt my "love" for him was more realistic and less fanatic/obsessive/insane.  I know that sounds really scary calling it "realistic" but I say that because it was not based off of what he looked like (ok, part of it was) but more of what his film choices were and how we handled himself during press junkets.  I cared about what he said, and what he thought about this movies and how to handled his personal life.  I never really cared about who he was dating or what he looked like as he was leaving a restaurant.  In fact, I grew to like him more when he made a point not to get mixed up with the gossip and paparazzi buzz. I know that would be a big issue with me if I was in a position similar to his.  I liked that was was so modest and exciting about his career.  I had a few posters of him on my wall, but it was not anywhere near what it could have been- I did not submit portrait drawings to magazines or create websites.

Still, I was a Orlando Bloom fan, and to the world that meant crazy-obsessed fan girl who was subject to many eye-rolls. That being said, I still checked up on websites to see what he was doing, or if there were new magazines coming out or new videos to watch.  The Internet was my connection to him, and I know that if I did not have such access to it, it would not have fed my obsession as much as it did.  I would find out when he would be on television, and I would set up a VHS, DVD or DVR (depending on what year it was) to record it.  And yes, I still have all of them...taking up space.  I know a lot of what I saw was pre-scripted, but all the same, I saw he was genuine about what he was talking about, and I liked what I had heard. The media encouraged my imaginary tangible connection to him. 

Something else that fed my interest of him was that I had a friend who was also a fan of Lord of the Rings and we would share our enthusiasm.  We could share the information we found, and the shared passion about the film (which was turning into a passion for all films) made our own excitement stronger. 

I know that it was Orlando's appearance that intrigued me in Lord of the Rings, and I was sold in Pirates of the Caribbean, but it was what I witnessed though his interviews and movie choices that kept me coming back.  The media helped me to keep returning as well, because the fans demanded it!

Escaping

As addressed in previous posts, the media provides a way for its users to escape.  Although I do not fully agree with the idea that media allows one to escape reality, I do think it provides a distraction, or at least adverts our attention enough that we momentarily and harmlessly forget about certain realities of our lives.  

I use the media mainly as a form of entertainment- an entertainment that can affect my mood easily.  Whether the media is news, movies or music, it has an influence on my own reality.

Applying escapism to the news, I think it does the opposite.  Watching, reading or listening to the news can actually bring me down to reality.  Especially with all the news focusing on the downfall of the economy, it snaps be back into the idea that the world is not always the happiest place.  What is said on the news is open to interpretation and the "reality" can be misrepresented.  However, it still forces me to look beyond my student and personal life, and observe the big picture.

That is where entertainment media comes in, and not just for me.  I am not alone when I say music and movies can alter my mood, and knowing this, I will use it for that purpose intentionally.  

Whether or not this is a healthy habit depends on the extremity that I use it.  Knowing the difference between movies and the emotions they evoke and reality is important.  I don't use the media to "escape" like a drug addict uses crack (too much of an extreme example?), but I do get in moods to watch films, or jump in the car, turn up the music and roll down the windows or to even relax and read a good book.  However, when I think of the main reasons I use these forms of media, it is to entertain and enjoy the story.  Yes, it does mean you get engrossed in the story of the media, and not reality, but it doesn't mean you have to escape to enjoy it.

One last thought- movies can also bring me down to reality.  Movies that are either documentaries or historical depictions can educate and provoke emotions associate with the time.  They are a interpretation of reality, and may not be entirealy based off of facts. It can, however, still give insight to the emotions of Titanic, or World War II, or just how unhealthy a super-sized burger is.  They provoke thought about a reality (looking at a larger picture) while entertaining us.  

Identifying with Music- Emotions

I music I listen to varies but the effect is all the same.  I am very specific about what I like, and what I don't and it is based on the emotions they evoke.  The music I listen to tends to be upbeat music that I can sing and dance too.  Otherwise, they are soundtracks to my favorite films that remind me of that film, and the time period in my life that I watched it.  Where I was, who I was with, and what I thought of the film all are evoked with the music of a soundtrack.  And I am not always talking about songs with lyrics, but instrumentals.  I love instrumental music.  It may be from my history in band, but I really appreciate the composition of different instruments to make one sound. 

The question of what makes music mine is interesting, because although I refer to it as my CD, or my music, it is not mine.  It was created by others that I have adopted.  But now as I consider it as "mine" and what makes it this way, it is just what I said above.  It is mine because it relates to me in a way that is unique against everyone else.  Others may have the same interest, but they do not listen to it for the exact reasons I do.  The music I listen to is generally happy, and no doubt it makes others happy too, but the memories or emotions they evoke are not the same. No one's playlist of favorite music is going to be exactly like mine.

Music also fits into my life in more ways than one would think.  I think it starts with learning music in school.  Playing an instrument and the knowledge acquired from that does play in everyday life.  Terms learned, or references noted are important, and it is exciting when I know what they mean.  I am quite proud I can read music and play instruments. Just this year, I was shocked when people didn't know who John Phillip Sousa was (he composed Stars and Stripes Forever, our national march!) And yes, that is a trivial bit of information, but it is still a big part of America's history, and I learned it from playing it in band class! Also, I have developed rhythm and I can use it whether it is in exercising (I work out to the tempo of the song) or playing the Wii Fit version of Step really well.  It's a great talent...I know.  Marching Band had some long-term affect on me!

When it comes to my friends, the type of music we listen to does not really affect our friendship.  I have many friends who love country music or rap (which I have little tolerance for) or who like only oldies.  However, we relate on how music makes us feel.  Because of this, I enjoy listening to music with friends, but I enjoy it most when I am alone, so I can control the playlist and not worry if others are satisfied.  Music does make a road trip though if everyone can enjoy similar music.

I have a select amount of songs that I consider to be my favorite songs, and my mom brought up a good point one day: What is it about a song that makes it your favorite over the rest.  It is all music, so what makes it so special or unique?  What is interesting is that most of my favorite songs are songs I had to look up the lyrics to because I could not really understand them ("Supermassive Black Hole" by Muse, "Dropped" by Phantom Planet, "Viva la Vida" by Coldplay and "Australia" by The Shins).  I think what made them the favorites was a combination of the tune, tempo and the lyrics I was so proud I learned.  All of them are songs I could sing along with, especially after I looked up lyrics!  I listen to them the most in the car or on my sound dock, which gives it the best quality. And I put my favorites on shuffle so I get a good mix to fit my emotions that day, or the emotions I want to feel.  Nothing puts me in a better mood after a rough day than listening to happy, upbeat songs- I like being in a good mood, and sometimes it just takes a good bit of music to do so.

Keeping in Touch- Easier Than Ever

One of the most profound changes in the world from our history is how we keep in touch.  Families used to live all in the same neighborhood, and letters and news were as fast as a horse could deliver them.  Now, in such a fast paced world, it is hard to imagine not having news instantaneously in our hands.  We would feel cut off and uninformed without it, because we are now in a world where information is always at our fingertips.  With the aid of media, there is no excuse for not keeping in touch, but no one wants that disconnection anyways.  

To this day, one of the most effective ways to stay connected on a personal level, for me, is to use the phone.  I moved across the country when I was 9, leaving friends and half my family behind.  Without the use of the phone, I would have never kept connected with any of them.  They keep me posted on the news in their lives, and that of that side of the U.S.A.  Of course, emailing and other electronic forms of communication help send quick hellos, but it is nothing like physically talking during a conversation to keep connected.  Even to this day, I prefer talking to anyone on the phone over than anything else.  

As far as the news goes, the Internet and television mainly keep me posted on the world in which we live.  Newspapers are a perfect way to get the news as well, and I enjoy having a hard copy of the history we are creating, but honestly, it is just not as easy.  It is not as instant as TV or the Internet, and I hate to wrestle with the size and awkward folds of the newspaper (which, for some reason, I can never get back to making it as neat as before).  

Over the years, I have also discovered who to go to in my family for news.  If it is the weather, I can always discuss it with my Grandma in Michigan.  She knows what the weather is doing in Florida more than I do.  And if it is local news and gossip from around town, I can talk to my other Grandma.  My parents know most of what is going on in my hometown, and my brother, who works in the Capitol, always knows politics and international affairs.  I also have a lot of friends who talk with me about all the recent movies, release dates, gossip and anything else that may be relevant to our lives. I will say, however, I am glad to find the gossip is at a minimum in the group.  That's not being connected- that's just a useless passage of time.  

The desire to remain connected exists in everyone- it's human nature to feel involved and informed.  It makes us feel part of the community, part of the world.  We (myself included!) would much rather hear of topics that specifically interest us, or what effects us personally, but it is up to us to make the decisions on what to be informed of.  It is up to the media to give all that they have and allow us to decide what we want to tune in to...how we keep in touch.

A Day In The Life

When reflecting on the media habits I have developed, I find I am quite media dependent, but not anywhere near harmful or extravagant. I will watch television for some downtime, or watch the weather for rain or freezing temperatures (which are not uncommon these days).  I like music and movies just as all the generations before, expect it is now so much more accessible then it used to be. When all my media uses are looked upon, the use of my computer and cellphone dominate all other forms of media because they are the tools that connect me to the media.  

Television may be a source of entertainment or easy news, but it is not a necessary item in my day-to-day life.  I love to watch certain shows, such as The Office (which I never miss if I can help it) and I always watch CNN for news, but it is not as vital to me personally as my phone and my computer.  

My phone is the biggest attachment because it does allow me to connect with the outside world, and it is it's own form of media.  It is a connection to media. It also is a easy way to talk to family and friends around the United States and to keep me informed of their news as well. 

The computer is different in a sense of what kind of media it brings me.  It is a Mac computer, so that in itself is a public form of advertisement for Apple products that I am happy to support.  It also connects me to the Internet, where I check my email many times a day, whether for important school updates, or the latest Facebook message.  The Internet is defiantly a huge form of media that I access every day. I would not say I was addicted to any of these gadgets that connect me to different medias, but they have changed the way I live and it is nice to have the options because they are so readily available.  

Watching movies is also the most frequent way I pass the time, so the television and computer are easy ways to watch whatever I choose, when I choose.  Computers make it possible for on-the-go viewing, and my television offers a widescreen presentation on a bigger scale.  Movies are the biggest specific media form I use, and I can't imagine not having this particular form of entertainment.  I will not go as far to say I could not live without them, but it is a form of media that can educate, instruct, entertain and move anyone who watches them.  The same goes to music as well.  I use music to elevate my mood, get me moving, and share with friends.  We all associate music with different things, as well as all other forms of media.

These media routines were established by habit, personal interests and how I was raised.  I have gotten into a habit to using my phone because I have had a cell since I was in seventh grade.  I first got one from my parents to be used for safety when I went on bike rides, or stayed late after school, and although I still have it for safety, I now use it to connect to media as well.  Movies and music are based off a personal interest and the interaction with other people with similar interests.  

The habits people establish can tell a lot about them, and when I look at my personal interests and habits, I see that although I am defiantly dependent, I am only that way because I am used to it.  I do not know of anything else, and nor do most people of our generation.  We say we can't live without our phone or computer, but I think everyone knows that is an over reaction.  Just how obsessed I, or anyone else, is is based off of what we are used to, what we are exposed to and how we perceive the necessities of our chosen media.